Wednesday, February 19, 2014

Family problems I need serious advice?




Muhamad


I've had a very bad past. I am 19 years and I did a lot of things in the past that am not proud of, I even went to prison, I use to steal from people, I dropped out of high school, me and my uncle fucked the same prostitute while I was 15 thus I lost my virginity. I use all types of drugs, I knock my other uncle teeth out, I used to fight with teachers I even made a lady cry by insulting her top to bottom, the list goes on. But I could say also I was neglected in the past and whip a lot when I was a kid, my died of lupus when I was a child, and my father used to work in a foreign country (usa)I used see him once in 2 years he used to visit for a month a go. I was raised by uncaring distant relative who were in only for the money my dad used to send. Also they used to report me at my school where I used to be insulted and beaten I was so exposed to everybody ...i was born in a refugee camp in kenya in a tent and i grew up in in kenya..people believe by scorning or beating somebody is a way of discipline...am not good at anything ..i dont talk to people nor smile and never laugh..i grew up with no fun,games tv playstation ..am not physcal..am a heavy smoker cozi hate myself and my teeth are crap..is there hope for me..plz don't be rude..thanx


Answer
everyone has a story,some are better than others but we all have one. but i believe that almost everyone is able to be redeemed.i clearly dont know you and although you said what you have been through i dont actually understand because its not my life, however i don't think your a bad person, just someone who has had a harsh life and i think you need to work on it.you need to work through the anger/hate/depression or whatever else it is that your feeling in order for you to be happy and to have a good life without hurting those around you. you have done a lot of things that are not good but that doesnt make you yourself a bad person it just means that you did bad things..you are not always your actions ..you need to face what you have done and you basicly need to face yourself as well as those that you have hurt emotionally/physically. do that and you will be happy and become the persom who, deep down you know you are, show that person to the worl. have the courage to face yourself .

Please recommend an affordable family vacation for mom, dad, and 2 boys ages 6 and 3?




Jennifer M


Sorry about that... I live in southeast Texas.


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First, you did not say where you are from. That and what your interests are would help answerers find you ideas.
Camping is great if y'all are the outdoor type and already have camping equipment and you and your husband have experience in camping. We tried it once (also a family of 4), little experience , not the outdoor kind of people and it was disastrous! A storm came on the first night we were on a mountain area. We did not waterproof our tent correctly and it leaked at various places. We were soaked , tempers flew and a wild bird or something made a sound just outside our tent and scared us to death! Looking back it is kinda comical now. But not at that time. We vowed never to go camping again!
Beaches are great and depending on which coast you are closer to (assuming you are in the USA), it might be great fun because I know a lot of folks like beaches and it costs next to nothing if you can drive there or fly short distance. Some beaches, like Daytona in Florida, costs a little to get to the beach to park your car but it is well worth it if you go early in the morning and can get a good spot. You will be spending many hours there so it is worth it to pay.
Amusement Parks are fun for Kids, like Disneyland or Disneyworld or many others but your key word "affordable" makes me think it might be too much (?) If you go in the Summer, you will probably get thirsty a lot and you count the costs (even if you can get a package deal) calculate the spending money you will need. A bottle of just water costs around $2 or so. In Summer. How about lunch? dinner? Children so young would want to take home a toy souvenir.
If you are near some Science museums with hands -on activities, it might be great fun. Or Aquarium. It would not cost as much as those amusement parks with rides.Hope this helps.




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